dwnie ([info]dwnie) wrote,
@ 2006-08-30 19:15:00
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Gnarly Stories
Well. I just had an interesting conversation with Marissa. I called to ask her about her first day at school and we had the usual chat about that. She then told me that she and her boyfriend might be getting back together. They had broken up at the beginning of summer. She told me it was a really gnarly long story and she couldn't talk with her mother about it and she wanted to talk about it with me. I'm very happy that she wants to share with me especially if it's something she thinks her mom would freak out about. Partly because I want her to talk about stuff with some one who is supposed to be an adult and also because I want her to trust me. I have felt alienated from her as she's gotten older and been interested in things I am not; clothes, music, shopping. I was telling one of my customers today that I miss the times I would pick my niece up from school and she'd run up to me and hug me so happy to see me! Well, I think she just gave me a big old hug! I'm concerned about whatever the story is. I'm guessing it's drugs or drinking because she said it's something that some people wouldn't understand. I told her I've had some pretty gnarly experiences myself in my day so I probably wouldn't be too shocked. We'll see! Oh yeah, she also told me she really really wants to make sushi again which made me very happy too since it's something we did did together as well! Yay for Auntie Dawnie!




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[info]swtalmnd
2006-08-31 03:41 am UTC (link)
Go Auntie Dawnie! Just try to hold it in if it's about sex o.O I can't imagine Marissa so old, man, I still remember when we took her for her first sushi! Now I feel old, but in a good way. I've always thought you were a great part of her life, and it makes me warm inside to know you haven't totally lost her to the woes of teendom.

*cheers*

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[info]dwnie
2006-08-31 08:56 pm UTC (link)
Thank you guys! I think I'm on the right track or at least the one I want to be on. I'm assuming it was drugs or sex but who knows! I'm not totally comfortable about having the sex talks with her but if it's what she needs then I'll be there. HA! I just remembered a story. You may know this one Amy. When Marissa was bout 7 or 8 maybe? I think it was younger but anyway We were hanging out and she was telling me about a movie the family had been watching the night before (G.I.Jane) There was a scene in it that she had a question about. I hadn't seen the movie and she told me about it. The scene was one where the female character tells one of the guys to "suck my dick" (or cock-I don't remember)during a fight. Marissa told me about this and then asked me "what does that mean? Suck my dick"? So I told her in pretty vague but accurate terms. She looked at me and said "eeewwww! That's what it means"? ha! I guess must remember that too! Yay for being the cool truth telling Auntie!!!!

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[info]swtalmnd
2006-08-31 10:00 pm UTC (link)
Yay for her having someone she can talk to about that stuff! ♥ You really always were a good Auntie ;)

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LOL
[info]jacesan
2006-09-01 07:32 pm UTC (link)
That scene's awesome. I'm not that big of a Demi Moore fan, but she was good in that movie.

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Flashback
[info]dwnie
2006-08-31 09:58 pm UTC (link)
I just had a flashback to that first dinner. "Amy, what's your nickname for Eddie"? heheheheheheeheeee

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Re: Flashback
[info]swtalmnd
2006-08-31 10:01 pm UTC (link)
Hahaha yes, you are EEEEVIL!

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Good job...
[info]jacesan
2006-08-31 07:15 pm UTC (link)
That's precisely the angle I was taking with my neighbor's daughter. She'd come to me with problems about boys, and drinking, and drugs. It's nice to be there as an adult for things they don't want to talk to their parents about.

I was giving her and her girlfriend a ride one day and her friend was completely oblivious to my presence. They were talking about sexual experiences and Kelsey told her about "getting to third base" with one of her boyfriends. When she asked, "What's that?", Kelsey looked at me and told her, "I'll tell you later." At which point I exclaimed, "Thank you." very loudly. There's some things I don't want to know about.

I'm afraid I kind of lost her about half-way through her first year in high school when I started working down in San Jose, and couldn't be around as much to look after her. Her and her friends' antics got her and her mother kicked out of my apartment complex. :(

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Re: Good job...
[info]dwnie
2006-08-31 09:59 pm UTC (link)
That sucks.

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